These lies you refer to sound like simply the wrong set of expectations. Along with those comes the wrong set of boundaries, or not enough boundaries.
I know as well as anyone what happens when my expectations are too high or on the wrong track and suddenly I realize I have been living under false ideas about a bunch of things. It's a hard fall.
Even though you're in pain you're still living. This time is not a lull or a waiting period. It is a learning period, a recovery period. It adds to who you are and what you know. It adds to your future happiness, if by nothing else than comparison, but hopefully also by improvement.
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These lies you refer to sound like simply the wrong set of expectations. Along with those comes the wrong set of boundaries, or not enough boundaries.
I know as well as anyone what happens when my expectations are too high or on the wrong track and suddenly I realize I have been living under false ideas about a bunch of things. It's a hard fall.
Even though you're in pain you're still living. This time is not a lull or a waiting period. It is a learning period, a recovery period. It adds to who you are and what you know. It adds to your future happiness, if by nothing else than comparison, but hopefully also by improvement.
It's good that you blog it out.