i think it would feel different if we wanted to cohabitate as a next step in our relationship. since we/i really don't want that, but we're doing this for the farm, the difficulty is dialed up.

after discussing it at house meeting last week, Terra is now actively looking for a camper or some kind of tiny house situation that ze can afford. we decided on an interim parking spot for a camper or a tiny house (different spots), and ze's going to view a couple options tomorrow. ze'll refrain from rushing into the wrong thing, but it's actively moving forward with the idea now. it's a relief.