I like the idea of a "Done" list - definitely a more positive approach to tasks :) What's your budget for living expenses - I'll keep an eye out for you. I think it's amusing that you picked up a book to decide about spanking interests - when I got to Womyn's Wear, I picked up a book on Lesbian Sex ('The Whole Lesbian Sex Book')for information, since I'd never had a 'girlfriend' before (blush). I also have 'SM 101,' which I can loan you if you'd like to do more research..... Yeah! Salt Spring Seeds!!!!!

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