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hannah ([personal profile] hannah) wrote2026-07-02 08:18 pm

Bounty.

Someone moving out of my building got me another large haul of herbs and spices. I've genuinely got more cinnamon than I know what to do with. Flavored salts, also. Whole cloves. Allspice.

I took it as an opportunity to sort through what I already had in my apartment, setting a bunch aside that I don't need or want - bland red pepper flakes, old garlic powder - to compost later. There's also some old Trader Joe's ready-to-eat lentil pouches, and I figure if those were best by last year, there's no point in risking eating them when I can compost them instead.

I'm thinking spice-infused cold brew coffee, with the weather being what it is, and having enough spices to experiment a bit.
Dan Savage ([syndicated profile] savagelove_feed) wrote2026-07-02 07:45 pm

The Thursday Letter: The Bread Winner

Posted by Dan Savage

On Thursdays I share a question from a reader and do my best to sit on my hands and let my readers give the advice — but first! An important correction… Hey, Dan! Quebecois French listener here. FROTTAGE absolutely does not mean frothing in French, it means “to rub” or “the action of rubbing.” The … Read More »

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Girls With Slingshots ([syndicated profile] girlswithslingshots_feed) wrote2026-07-01 10:10 pm

Girls With Slingshots - GWS Hair of the Dog #938


New comic!

Today's News:

I was about to say "Imagine Hazel in sales" and then realized she's had sales jobs for half of the series.


Imagine Hazel selling something she doesn't want to sell.


There ya go. Here's the original post! Here's the chaser post!

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hannah ([personal profile] hannah) wrote2026-07-01 03:42 pm

July the First.

I've reached 1916 in the letter transcription project. I finish May, get to the next letter, and see it's for July. I say aloud, "Where the fuck did June go?"

I glance over at the wall calendar.

I say, "Oh, right," and shake my head slowly at this particular set of circumstances.

It turns out June didn't go anywhere; there just aren't any letters for that month for this year, at least not that I was able to find. There's a large folder where the letters aren't dated as specifically as the full day, month, and year, so one might turn up later. In any case, what timing.
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peatweaver ([personal profile] peatweaver) wrote2026-06-30 10:33 pm

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I’m truly lost now
I don’t know what to do
I’m supposed to go to reclaim Mongolia
It was the last place
I don’t know if I’m brave enough now
I don’t know why I’m doing anything
I don’t know how I can recover from all of this in time
I am really scared I doom buuchan by fleeing
I don’t know if I could have helped her fate either way
I don’t think I want to keep doing this
I don’t have a home
I don’t have a family
I don’t have anything
Why would he do that? To me?
I’m as good as truly vanished from others
I don’t know why it happened this way
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peatweaver ([personal profile] peatweaver) wrote2026-06-30 10:15 pm

This one was wrong

I won’t ever ever ever ever ever mistake it again

I feel a total inward collapse

I can’t believe that someone would touch me and use home language and say he’s happy I’m learning to rely on others. then say it’s not different from a friend and relying too much becomes a burden

What..?

You said it, not me, winter home

I just wanted to hear his voice on my birthday, which always makes me sad

What the hell is this—?

He knew my stories

My skin feels wrong
I’m never ever ever ever ever

No humans in the inner chamber

I am never believing a man again

I am tired , I wanted to rest
Girls With Slingshots ([syndicated profile] girlswithslingshots_feed) wrote2026-06-30 10:00 pm

Girls With Slingshots - GWS Hair of the Dog #937


New comic!

Today's News:

This comic needs a few more panels. 


Panel 5

Thea: "I can't believe you're not wearing underwear!"
Angel: "No, look at-- wait, hang on..."


Panel 6
Angel puts her feet in a pair of stirrups and lifts them up toward her shoulders


Panel 7

Thea: "OH MY GOD."


Here's the original post, and the chaser post!

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hannah ([personal profile] hannah) wrote2026-06-30 08:31 pm

Light to the west.

The meeting with the intake specialist went well enough, I think. I gave her specifics and she seemed to respond well to that. I did my best to keep my cool, and I made her laugh a few times, so I think I managed a decent tone. We talked for about an hour, and I'll be back in touch with her and another representative soon.

We talked about practicalities and what it was I wanted, and what they could give me. She was up-front about the issue of someone with as extensive a work history as mine looking for certain kinds of help, and that was something I've wanted to hear someone else say for a long time.

She seemed deeply impressed that I'd recently bought some clothes over the phone - not the purchasing itself, but for having contacted someone so old-school I'd read my credit card number aloud to make the order. It's true that doesn't often happen much these days. Less so, going forward, since the place is going out of business. But that's why I made the order I did. You can't get good tie dye on the East Coast, at least not that I've seen. You really need to get it from California.

She also looked surprised when I told her I'd been in my apartment for about fifteen years, but then I told her it had west-facing windows, and she understood perfectly.
Dan Savage ([syndicated profile] savagelove_feed) wrote2026-06-30 11:00 am

Quickies

Posted by Patrick Kearney

1. I’m a 20-year-old virgin and I have until very recently thought I was pan romantic/asexual. But I have found myself being sexually attracted to my close female friends. How do I know if I am ace or struggling with religious guilt? Labels can wait — get out there and live a little, kiddo. P.S. … Read More »

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Dan Savage ([syndicated profile] savagelove_feed) wrote2026-06-30 11:00 am

The Future of Douching?

Posted by Nancy Hartunian

A woman’s hot boyfriend is being harassed by his upstairs neighbor who has come up with a novel way to summon him to his door. Our first guest is GI physician and friend of the show Dr. Carlton Thomas. He is on to answer a question about NEW DOUCHING TECHNOLOGY. On the Magnum, a newly … Read More »

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Girls With Slingshots ([syndicated profile] girlswithslingshots_feed) wrote2026-06-29 10:00 pm

Girls With Slingshots - GWS Hair of the Dog #936


New comic!

Today's News:

They must not have claws, either, because I don't even wanna think about the effect of kitten claws on eyelids and how fast Hazel would've thrown them out the window.

Here's the original post! Here's the chaser post!

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hannah ([personal profile] hannah) wrote2026-06-28 08:15 pm

Parade grounds.

Four hours at Pride is about my limit. Next time I'm thinking of maybe bringing along some kind of nonviolent deterrent for people around me that smoke - maybe just keeping my mask on to make the point that they're stinking up the place. Better 100,000 whips and chains at Pride than a single cigarette. Or vape pen. Or anything that makes smoke, really.

Still, aside from the smoke, and how tired I was by the fourth hour, it was a good afternoon. I commented to someone that you know it's a great parade when you lose count of the marching bands. There were at least four of them, plus two different motorcycle cohorts. I applauded at the rainbow capitalism floats for the canaries in the coal mine that they were, though I drew the line at applauding Disney. The local unions helped wash the taste of that out of my mouth well enough.

I wore a tie-dyed rainbow dress, which I've taken to calling my proudest dress. I've also taken to saying I blended in perfectly.

I stayed for four hours and it was estimated to keep going for at least another two, so I don't mind having left when I did. Also, I was constantly re-applying sunscreen and I don't doubt that the sun's going to make itself known tonight in the shower. So perhaps next year, leaving a bit earlier, and also a hat.
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peatweaver ([personal profile] peatweaver) wrote2026-06-28 06:16 pm

30 is a stupid number

my imagination runs wild
ways in which i won’t be hurt
no, surely that wouldn’t be the case
surely there’s more to it

let myself turn a corner, giddy, waiting for the surprise

thought of a hundred ways to meet me from the outside

took not a one
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hannah ([personal profile] hannah) wrote2026-06-27 09:56 pm

Troubleshooting.

Today I learned that apparently, if there's an activity that begins on Discord's app, its features are inaccessible through the web browser. What happened was I'd wanted to join in an Escapade panel brainstorming session, same as the last few weeks. I could get into the voice and video channel chat just fine, but in the whiteboard activity, nobody could hear me and I couldn't hear anyone else.

As best as I can tell, it was either because the activity started from the app, regardless of what anyone else was doing, or the first person in the video channel came in through the app, no matter how else anyone was using it.

Like I said on the server, having to use the app if the activity began on the app introduces a break to the workflow. If I have to use an additional service to make use of all features, it's going to be harder to use the service and the features. I don't know how to communicate to Discord that this is a problem - how the browser should work by itself, no app needed, since I'm on the computer. So I'm open to politely worded suggestions.
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hannah ([personal profile] hannah) wrote2026-06-26 10:18 pm

Frozen stock.

Out of all the things I could've done today, I decided to focus on fruit. I knew my younger brother R. and his wife G. were coming for dinner, and I know how much she likes rhubarb, so I decided to make a strawberry-rhubarb soda syrup - the big difference being throwing the lemon into the pot, not just the strips of zest, along with a hunk of ginger from the freezer.

Also from the freezer, because I couldn't remember when I put them in there, was pawpaw cake. The pawpaws were frozen and thawed overnight in the fridge, still ripe and the perfectly tropical aroma wafting through. The recipe says it's bread, but I didn't mince words tonight and just called it cake. I had enough pulp for three of them, so it doesn't save a whole lot of room to swap the fruit for a cake, but this time I'm at least marking when it went into the freezer to begin with. And it's three months to their next season. I might be done with this one and have room by then.
Dan Savage ([syndicated profile] savagelove_feed) wrote2026-06-26 11:00 am

After Action Report #35

Posted by Nancy Hartunian

Meet Maxon. Ho hum. Just your typical non-binary, exhibitionist, pre-op sub who has worn a titanium cock-cage constantly for over 850 days. If this sounds rather dull to you, remember as Maxon says: “Everyone’s chastity journey is different.” BUT THAT ISN’T EVEN WHAT THIS AFTER ACTION REPORT IS ABOUT. Do you like to play bingo? … Read More »

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Denise ([staff profile] denise) wrote in [site community profile] dw_maintenance2026-06-25 11:36 pm

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Folks may have noticed that the site has been slow for logged-out users over the last while. This is partly because we separate traffic by logged-in, "logged out but have visited the site before", and "logged out, never visited the site before" and assign the fewest resources to the last category (because we're pretty confident the overwhelming majority of it is bot and scraper traffic, even if it's often impossible to say for sure). The flood of garbage traffic is a plague and a scourge the entire internet is dealing with, and it's hitting small sites the hardest as operators get better and better at cloaking their requests to look like real, authentic use. We long ago hit the point where adding more resources is a possible solution (because they just eat them up as soon as we do), and splitting traffic lets us keep the site usable for our actual users without wasting too much server power on garbage.

We've now, lucky us, reached the point where the "logged out, have never visited the site before" path is just flooded all the time, and the "logged out but have visited the site before" path is suffering some of the overflow. We've made some changes to the routing to try to improve things for logged out users who have visited the site before and keep it at "it may be a little bit slow, but at least it works" instead of "it keeps timing out", and we've seen some improvements, but if you're accustomed to browsing the site while logged out, I'm really sorry but it may continue to be a little miserable.

You will get the fastest page loads and the best performance by browsing the site logged in. If you are having trouble loading the front page to log in, bookmark the direct login page. We can't route the front page to the "more power" server pool, because it's a common target for garbage traffic, but we've switched /login over to "more power" and we'll try to keep it there as long as we can unless it starts getting slammed, too.
Girls With Slingshots ([syndicated profile] girlswithslingshots_feed) wrote2026-06-25 10:00 pm
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hannah ([personal profile] hannah) wrote2026-06-25 09:31 pm

(no subject)

The first firefly sightings of the season tonight weren't the first fireflies, not with how many were out there. Still, it's always a pleasure to see them. There's a steep hill in one of the parks near me that used to get a lot of drainage issues - used to, because a few years ago the city threw up its hands and decided to be smart, and put in a lot of native plants at the bottom of the hill to fix most of the problems. The lawn's also been closed off for the season, with a waist-high fence around it, which doesn't stop the truly determined but deters the casual passers-by.

All of which makes for prime firefly territory. Lush grass, good foliage, open space without humans walking around. Standing up at the fence like any other nature sanctuary, waiting for the animals.

It didn't cure all of what ailed me, but it helped considerably.