Oh, I love that! And having a way to practice in a safe space! Yes! I have literally no idea what Tantra is -- it seems like one of those things where the popular conception of it is probably extremely different than the practice, see also: everything -- but that makes me interested.
Yes, it is kind. If it's flipped -- that's how I came to thinking about it -- I don't want to violate someone's real desire, and I don't want to have to guess and read between the lines and maybe be wrong at what they want. So, if they tell me no, they are gifting me so much freedom and certainty and ability to love and interact fully without holding back what I suspect might be a problem, as you say.
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Date: 2022-04-24 06:11 pm (UTC)Yes, it is kind. If it's flipped -- that's how I came to thinking about it -- I don't want to violate someone's real desire, and I don't want to have to guess and read between the lines and maybe be wrong at what they want. So, if they tell me no, they are gifting me so much freedom and certainty and ability to love and interact fully without holding back what I suspect might be a problem, as you say.
It sounds life changing! How did you get into it?