Date: 2022-08-15 11:35 pm (UTC)
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I really like to be able to talk about things explicitly with people, and I do find that approach matters: a casual "hey, do you usually like to be a frequent-contact friend?" in a breezy tone after an interruption to the normal contact schedule can imply that this is a normal question about an already-known set of categories and folks are more likely to go along with it. Saying "I want to discuss our friendship and talk about our boundaries and preferences" to begin a conversation is much less likely to go over well. Which, you probably already know that, but it's a survival strategy for me.
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