What fills the bucket

Partner stuff. What's good for me?

Holding
Sex
Wandering conversation
Revealing joys
Cooking together
Shared planning
Vulnerability
Combining efforts to overcome an obstacle
Hurting people until they worry about it
People noticing systems/small details about me or my life
Being made tea for
Co-daydreaming
Trustworthiness/trust
Joy in my animals
Acknowledging flaws
Wry humour
Acceptance of the cycles of life and death
Exercising skill and creativity
Poetry appreciation
Just sitting and watching living things
Shared time

What fills the bucket

Partner stuff. What's good for me?

Holding
Sex
Wandering conversation
Revealing joys
Cooking together
Shared planning
Vulnerability
Combining efforts to overcome an obstacle
Hurting people until they worry about it
People noticing systems/small details about me or my life
Being made tea for
Co-daydreaming
Trustworthiness/trust
Joy in my animals
Acknowledging flaws
Wry humour
Acceptance of the cycles of life and death
Exercising skill and creativity
Poetry appreciation
Just sitting and watching living things
Shared time