Uninteresting = Peaceful?
Aug. 26th, 2004 09:04 pmThe Juggler and I got together last night. We met up late, I'd been up dealing with the flood the night before, so we got together around 8pm and drove aimlessly for awhile, then sat in the car giggling idiotically at anything and everything. That was really almost the whole of the date.
I've realised that I have more fun when I don't take things so seriously, and also that as things stand now the Juggler just isn't gonna be a major part of my life. He doesn't have time. He'll be significant, but our time together in all likelihood (I'm testing a system that might not make this the case, but) won't be enough to keep us intimate.
So, I shouldn't take that too seriously.
More interesting, maybe, is that I'm thinking of trying to get more seriously into the bottoming end of flogging. I've the idea that it could use some teaching from an experienced person at some point just to.... calibrate? To experience the range and see what the more exotic bits are like. Also interesting is that, while this sort of thing mixes with sex, it would also be pretty cool as a stand-alone. I'm not sure how easy it'd be to find someone who's into that sort of thing, though, and I'm certainly not huge on starting up another sexual relationship right now.
Also, I am the tomato sauce goddess. That is to say, I like my own tomato sauce. I don't usually like canned tomato sauce, but I do like my own tomato sauce, and I'm freezing some of it. Unfortunately (fortunately?) tomatoes boil down to very little volume when you make sauce.
I need more tomatoes. :)
Having a bunch of fun on Chia. It's interesting to play the head of the church and the head of a brothel in quick sucession, as it is to play both churchpeople and the church-hunted magicians.
This time of rest has been cool. I caught up on my food, learnt that my usual subway sandwich contains something like 1600 calories per sandwich, and chatted with the roomate a bunch. Tomorrow is back to work. :)
I've realised that I have more fun when I don't take things so seriously, and also that as things stand now the Juggler just isn't gonna be a major part of my life. He doesn't have time. He'll be significant, but our time together in all likelihood (I'm testing a system that might not make this the case, but) won't be enough to keep us intimate.
So, I shouldn't take that too seriously.
More interesting, maybe, is that I'm thinking of trying to get more seriously into the bottoming end of flogging. I've the idea that it could use some teaching from an experienced person at some point just to.... calibrate? To experience the range and see what the more exotic bits are like. Also interesting is that, while this sort of thing mixes with sex, it would also be pretty cool as a stand-alone. I'm not sure how easy it'd be to find someone who's into that sort of thing, though, and I'm certainly not huge on starting up another sexual relationship right now.
Also, I am the tomato sauce goddess. That is to say, I like my own tomato sauce. I don't usually like canned tomato sauce, but I do like my own tomato sauce, and I'm freezing some of it. Unfortunately (fortunately?) tomatoes boil down to very little volume when you make sauce.
I need more tomatoes. :)
Having a bunch of fun on Chia. It's interesting to play the head of the church and the head of a brothel in quick sucession, as it is to play both churchpeople and the church-hunted magicians.
This time of rest has been cool. I caught up on my food, learnt that my usual subway sandwich contains something like 1600 calories per sandwich, and chatted with the roomate a bunch. Tomorrow is back to work. :)