It's actually a quote from the poly community re: people doing stuff because their partners like it, rather than because they like it themselves.
Personally I'm a bit mixed-- I do like some typical pain sensations, and I like sort of an adversarial brat/owner dynamic, not always at the same time.
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Date: 2005-10-25 11:34 pm (UTC)*bzzzt* Bad dom, lazy dom... :-)
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Date: 2005-10-25 11:38 pm (UTC)Personally I'm a bit mixed-- I do like some typical pain sensations, and I like sort of an adversarial brat/owner dynamic, not always at the same time.
The phraseology is so superb, though.