Ugh

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Perils of indie podcasts: I start listening to an autism podcast and the dude is low-key abusing his wife for the ten minutes I kept listening (as they talk he's tearing down her ideas, interrupting her, making fun of her for speaking, making fun of her for not speaking, all the while she's giving him enormous tolerance for doing the same sorts of things x 10)

Some resources to read, they may be the same article, for my own use later:
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/09/03/well/live/autistic-burnout-advice.html
https://medium.com/autistic-discovery/autistic-people-are-the-experts-on-autistic-burnout-6992dca38615