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I will often want to change something at the last minute, not necessarily because I want to do the other thing, but because I want options. Then I can comfortably do either option. Obviously this can be really hard on any activity partners, but folks who know me trust that when I say "are you keen to doing this instead" it really is an option if they're into it, rather than a complete change of plans. Particularly Tucker is great at rolling with this, and I think I'm pretty good at giving him time and space to adjust and decide.