Lesson of the Day

If you try to be graceful, kind, good-- a good person to good people --you must also learn to apologise sometimes. If you live your life in an 'I do what I want, I am what I am, deal with it' sort of way you don't can be unapologetic about hurting people, but not otherwise. And since everyone messes up sometimes, you will need to apologise sometimes. Sometimes necessity even demands that there's no overall-good solution.

And that's okay. Don't ignore it, don't hide from it, don't worry that since things are a little fucked up they'll always be irreparably fucked up and stop trying. Apologise and go on.