Criteria

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Boyfriend criteria list, although somewhat irrelevent right now:

- already has a best friend who is not me
- no ownership around my pussy, I choose who I have sex with
- safe sex sensibilities in line with my own
- no ownership around my brain, I choose who I like or dislike and in what ways, and what my opinions are
- cuddling and holding are actively sought out
- at least mildly kinky AND
- respectful AND
- careful and cautious with it (safe)
- more personality than wound-on-legs-ness
- spends significant amount of times on hobbies (at least 2 days/week)
- employed
- no current (untreated?) mental illness AND no mental illness (untreated?) for the majority of their past (two years out of twenty is not a majority, ten is)
- likes to do fun things that I like to do
- with me sometimes AND
- without me sometimes
- is available when I am
- including mornings on a regular basis
- has cellphone or other reliable contact method
- is attractive
- sense of humour (good sense of humour? or at least pleasantly painful)
- sense of irony
- smart
- has clean towels most of the time
- eats decently often
- good at sex AND
- has sex often with me