A Phone Call!

[greenstorm]

*laugh*

Nice to talk to them both, but man, does it ever get more complicated...

Yeah, definite reentry fears on my part. Hope everyone knows what they want and asks for it. Worried that if people aren't really clear it's gonna blow wide open.

Comments

Reentry Thoughts

[pieman.livejournal.com]

I've never heard anyone talk about "reentry" before, but what an interesting concept. Sometimes giving things a name does help to identify them.

I've been getting that with Cee and wondered what it was about. And currently I feel like it happens everytime I see her as the gaps between those meetings is too great. There is always some trepidation on both the emotional and physical level of "Is this still good?" Even with talking to her everyday on the phone.

Just keep trying to get everyone to be as clear as possible...at least i think that even the attempt to do that is therapeutic, nevermind when it is actually successful.

Re: Reentry Thoughts

[greenstorm.livejournal.com]

I'm really bad for it, quite often. It just takes time -- if I haven't seen the Juggler for a week, it takes maybe two hours to settle back in, give or take an hour. So it needed a name, so everyone would know it wasn't them, it was just one of the ways I interact with people in a specific situation.

For me it's less, is this still good, than, is this still safe. :>

Re: Reentry Thoughts

[pieman.livejournal.com]

I get the "is this safe" feeling with my SO and Cee's SO. With Cee, I feel no concerns around whether or not I am "safe." With reentry I am much more nervous about whether or not other people are going to wig out somehow.

Relationships really are completely unique little entities aren't they?