Excavation
Feb. 25th, 2019 01:36 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
greenstormOkay. I've talked about Josh and the farm a lot lately. It's time to start digging into some of the other stuff I've got going on.
I'm not sure how much baggage belongs here, or how much I'm bringing into it that shouldn't be here at all. But: Tucker moved up to my town recently. He'll be spending roughly 3 weeks/month here and roughly 1 week/month in Van. It's been pretty great; we've been spending some time on our own and some time together and talking about how to balance that and it's been working out. It was hard when he was here for a week or more straight because I didn't get my own space or time to do anything, and also didn't want to miss out on our time together before he went back to the city for several weeks. So it's been good.
But now we've got a couple of apart things going on, and that's harder.
I've been feeling like, since he's not scheduling stuff, I have to be constantly on-call if I want to talk to him. Writing it out like this, I guess I need to schedule time to talk with him before he heads down, or just deal with the fact that it's ok for me to not be available.
There's a bunch more here, but I'm out of time. Later.
I'm not sure how much baggage belongs here, or how much I'm bringing into it that shouldn't be here at all. But: Tucker moved up to my town recently. He'll be spending roughly 3 weeks/month here and roughly 1 week/month in Van. It's been pretty great; we've been spending some time on our own and some time together and talking about how to balance that and it's been working out. It was hard when he was here for a week or more straight because I didn't get my own space or time to do anything, and also didn't want to miss out on our time together before he went back to the city for several weeks. So it's been good.
But now we've got a couple of apart things going on, and that's harder.
I've been feeling like, since he's not scheduling stuff, I have to be constantly on-call if I want to talk to him. Writing it out like this, I guess I need to schedule time to talk with him before he heads down, or just deal with the fact that it's ok for me to not be available.
There's a bunch more here, but I'm out of time. Later.
