the Daily Breakup
Aug. 26th, 2021 07:23 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
greenstormDon't forget: he was able to put aside his breakup with you in order to enjoy his date with Sarah, but he was not able to put aside an impending maybe-change in frequency with Sarah to be civil with you. He was able to listen to Sarah and process a threat to the relationship where she was really upset with her and not attack her, but he was not able to to listen to you and talk about a threat to the relationship with you without attacking you.
Remember.
You'll want this to never have happened.
It happened.
Remember, so next time you won't go looking up old entries and find the same thing again.
You wish it were different. That's ok. But it's not.
And don't let him gaslight you into this being your fault. He was able to keep a shred of consideration for you as long as she was around, but couldn't lift a finger once she was no longer in the room.
And come on. You know better than to believe someone when they say it's not NRE.
How bout next time you try dating someone who's actually had some successful poly relationships?
Remember.
You'll want this to never have happened.
It happened.
Remember, so next time you won't go looking up old entries and find the same thing again.
You wish it were different. That's ok. But it's not.
And don't let him gaslight you into this being your fault. He was able to keep a shred of consideration for you as long as she was around, but couldn't lift a finger once she was no longer in the room.
And come on. You know better than to believe someone when they say it's not NRE.
How bout next time you try dating someone who's actually had some successful poly relationships?
