Sometimes...
May. 7th, 2004 06:15 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
...you need to let things go, or they'll kill you. Just let them go. Does everyone spend so much time letting things go?
The song says:
You gotta set free what you love just to bring it back.
Except, it's not setting it free if you think it will come back. You can't do it to bring it back. You do it to do it.
I wish I knew whether this was good adult behaviour in compromising or codependent in giving in without getting my needs met. I wish I believed there was a right or wrong here, instead of just a clashing set of perspectives. I wish I could find a spot where I fit better.
I wish all these things, but still I will let it go. Holding onto this will kill me. I will let it go.
The song says:
You gotta set free what you love just to bring it back.
Except, it's not setting it free if you think it will come back. You can't do it to bring it back. You do it to do it.
I wish I knew whether this was good adult behaviour in compromising or codependent in giving in without getting my needs met. I wish I believed there was a right or wrong here, instead of just a clashing set of perspectives. I wish I could find a spot where I fit better.
I wish all these things, but still I will let it go. Holding onto this will kill me. I will let it go.