Mmmmmr.

[greenstorm]

Boy. Work. Food. Sauna. Sex. Bed.

It's so *good*.

There's nice snow outside.

Polynotes:
I'm poly because for me, variety and contrast lead to mindful appreciation that I don't have otherwise.
I love lots of people, and I like sex with a variety of people, sometimes those two groups overlap.
Practicality is the root of all happiness.
If you refuse to do bad relationships, you'll only have good relationships, one way or the other.

Comments

[estrellada.livejournal.com]

I loved my friends in ways that overlapped enough with the way I loved my lovers to have a hard time drawing a line between it: I can, and do "love more than one", without intention or design - it just happens. If I committed to only having an intense committed emotional relationship with one person, I'd have to renounce you and maydela and breklor and babboo (and I suppose for the sake of argument, _locke, not that that makes pragmatic differences in my life) and probably others in the future, and definitly others in the past.

I can do sexual fidelity (you will not cross this line of physical intimacy with others) just fine.

[estrellada.livejournal.com]

This is also a short and shallow list of 'people I love and how that works for me' - basically I don't like feeling like there needs to be a limit on my feelings for people - If I love them, I can admit to and experience love them, which doesn't have to mean fucking them.

I went around for a long time feeling like I couldn't do monogamy right because no matter how good I was at keeping to my SO's pants (which I was generally fairly accomplished at) my heart had lots of room in it.